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Pride Fade Advocate Small - Stepped

Pride Fade Advocate Small - Stepped

Regular price $42.50 USD
Regular price $50.00 USD Sale price $42.50 USD
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Our companion to the Advocate Smooth, this notched toy is designed to let you know exactly where you are in your training journey. With the same ultra-smooth, glossy finish and gradual taper, the Advocate Stepped offers minimal resistance for gentle dilation. Its Medium (A10) firmness offers enough rigidity for penetration while remaining pliable. The Advocate Small's dimensions cover the same range of girths as our Sidekick XXXS through Small sizes - four toys for the price of one! And, unlike many of our smallest toys, it can be made Vac-U-Lock compatible.

These pride-affirming toys are designed with community support in mind. 20% of each purchase goes back to the queer community in the form of donations to the Lavender Rights Project. Plus, you are supporting a 100% queer-owned shop!

The exact look of this fade may vary between pours, with some colors being more prominent than others. Particularly, the white center section of the trans pride fade may disappear somewhat into the pink, and the bottom purple section of the rainbow fade may disappear into the blue a bit.

Diameter of first step: 0.75"
Diameter of second step: 1.0"
Diameter of third step: 1.25"
Diameter of fourth step: 1.5"
Diameter of base: 2.6"
Total length: 7.8"
Usable length: 7.3"

The Advocate's base is designed to be harness compatible and anal safe. As with all of our toys, the Advocate is made of 100% body-safe platinum cure silicone. Please see the FAQ for details on how to keep your toy good as new.

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Must-Know Information


100% body-safe platinum silicone

Cosmetic-grade mica pigments

Skin-safe silicone pigments

Discreet Shipping

  • All orders ship in unmarked packaging
  • Ship-from address says "TFT" on company name
  • Credit card line also says "TFT"
  • International customs forms list item as "silicone sculpture"

International Customers

ThemFriends is located in the United States. We love our international customers! However, please know that as an extremely small business we do not have the capacity to deal with customs fees or sales/VAT taxes local to our international customers. We will not collect these fees from you, nor will we be responsible for paying them if they are assessed in transit to you.

By making a purchase from ThemFriends for shipping outside the US, you accept the possibility that you may be responsible for paying customs fees and/or local taxes/VAT.